Tonight I am flying high. No, not on sugar, though I do have it running in my veins, but because what seemed to be a very long, much anticipated and grueling time that I have been “in waiting” for direction has finally arrived. And comically, or rather ironically, I really don’t know the logistics or to what is going to unveil itself to me, but I can tell you, when the spirit hit, a couple weeks ago, I forced myself to walk in faith. To just keep doing what I believe I was “supposed” to do.
Like negative space in a drawing, painting, or room, waiting for direction is anything but comfortable (unless you are privy in past to “wait for it”). But I’ve lived long enough to know in order to have peace we have to find comfort in the uncomfortable, and those things that come after the longest time, and that time feeling like purgatory (No, I’m not catholic, but my mother was raised in this religion, I also pay attention to those people that are the happiest, the most peaceful, serene, and I listen to what is beautiful in their life), so when a break comes, a ray of light, or hope really, it is so incredibly wonderful.
In youth I was quick to jump, to “find” whatever it was I thought I was supposed to experience. Maturity has taught me, nothing worth having comes easy. Nothing. And if it looks too good to be true? It probably is!
So tonight I have five paintings started. A still life, floral (2), a rooster, and for the life of me I can’t remember what the fifth one is. All started this evening when I got home from a day that felt purposeful, important, helping others, others who weren’t practicing the kind of drama that belongs on a stage (or in a helium balloon that floats fastly and quickly away), but real life, illnesses, frustration, and just needing a fresh advocate come in and help. It feels so good to me to help others. My last therapist wrongfully suggested the reason why I help others is because I get “kudos”. I looked straight at her, without hesitation and said “If you believe this to be true? You have never given to another from the goodness or your heart, and RECEIVED the loving touch of God blessing you. I feel it. I don’t seek for permission, admiration, or for others to pump up a broken soul. I am not broken, I am not in need of friends, and I am certainly not in need to be validated as worthy. I learned from the age of 10 or so that to give is to receive. It’s one of my most cherished gifts in life. And to fully understand this, give without the other person, or recipients KNOW you are doing it, and tell nobody, not.a.soul!
Of course, as with anything, there are extremes, and there are takers out there that will rob your heart from the generosity that we’re meant to feel, to do, to be. That’s where lives lessons kind of kick you in the teeth. Oh how I know this place, and I have no desire to return there, but I will. That old familiar feeling of caring or giving too much to another will shadow a day, or two, but I’ll jump back in and try it all over again. Just not necessarily with the same person, but sometimes, YES, the same person.
So, I really need to get to bed, but I don’t want to put the brush down. It’s flowing, and creativity is at my optimum. It’s a wonderful, wonderful, place to be. So grateful I struggled so long in purgatory! Because even if I wake up tomorrow and the creativity has fizzled, tonight? What I’m feeling tonight? Was worth the wait. Keep in mind, I don’t know what’s ahead of me, I don’t know ANY details, I was just given a direction. It’s exciting that something I once thought was so insignificant can and does bring me so much joy!
May peace be with you, and may you bask in the glory of “knowing” which road or path to take. Love to you!