I’m painting (on canvas) for the first time in months, listening to a playlist on Spotify that depicts my life and times in words, songs. “Rocky Mountain High” just played, which was, I believe, our 8th grade graduation song. John Denver got me through MUCH in my youth. The, what seemed insurmountable problems of youth, which seemed so very difficult, something like a blemish on my face, or my favorite Levi’s not clean for a date, etc. I think about it sometimes, as I drive by the local high school and see these YOUNG KIDS and I question, “Was I really ever that young?” And then, putting into proportion the immense deep feelings I had for a kid that I had hoped would last into adulthood. I’m laughing now. IF ONLY relationships were that easy! ha! But it’s nice to think about being so young, so innocent. And certainly the woes of that time were real, and feelings are so deep because you’ve yet to experience life, to experience loss, to experience the pain of broken hearts or dreams. I’m not meaning to sound cynical, not at all. I guess I’m just saying, the innocence and naivety are covered with blankets of protection of our youth.
I’ve often written about music. How important it is to my well being, to my mental health. I simply don’t know how I could ever live without it. In thinking about life’s necessities, and if I were given only one luxury, would I choose music over art? I think I probably would! And yet art is so important to me, ingrained in every aspect of my being. I’m so fortunate that I have known passion for such. I’m grateful for that. I’m grateful for where my paint brush has taken me in life, and all the good it has brought me to.
Now, a song by Toni Child’s “I’ve got to go now”. A song about a woman in love with an alcoholic, who tosses her and his children aside for the almighty bottle. This song actually relates to the three major relationships I’ve had in my life. All alcoholics. The first, who physically beat me, the second who emotionally did, and the last, the one who gave me so much, and likewise, took so much of me when we parted. “Must be addicted to all this pain, because I keep coming back for the shame. Dear God give me the strength to leave, I’ve got to keep going, keep going this time”. Powerful song, and an epitaph of my past relationships. Listening to this song does not always make me sad. Shat it does is get me in touch with the courage I have mustered in my life. The starting over, the strength and fortitude that comes when you say goodbye to the one you love, because you know, if you stay, you will die before he.
Now, “Landslide” by Stevie Nicks. I LOVE this song. It’s been, what I call, my “recovery” song. Questioning, seeing, surviving. “Oh, mirror in the sky. What is love? Can the child within my heart rise above? Can I sail through the changing ocean tide? Can I handle the seasons of my life?” I go to this song when I am questioning, seeking strength, seeking guidance. Doubt becomes certainty, becomes strength, endurance, and then even on top of that becomes the silver lining of it all. “But time makes you bolder, and children get older, and I’m getting older too…” Life, learning, lessons. I’ve become the person I wanted to be, when it comes to morals, standards, strength. And how did I do that? Only after the landslide took me down.
Life these days is pretty straight forward. I am working hard on myself, and my home. I am focused, aligned, very content with my life. Change is coming, I’m not afraid of it, nor am I afraid of how it will change me. I’ve got a track record now. All the difficulties have thickened my skin, but not my heart. My heart is strong, my thoughts are clear, and damn, I just had pistachio ice cream!
Music? A necessity for me. I have an italian friend who says she couldn’t live without olive oil. Me? I couldn’t live without music. What’s your necessity?
And now I’ll close as “Rhythm of my Heart” Rod Stewart, is playing.”The rhythm of my heart is beating like a drum, , with the words I love you rolling off my tongue, Never will I roam, for I know my place is home, where the ocean meets the sky I’ll be sailing!” Have a great weekend! Chase your desires, your dreams, or hell, just get yourself an ice cream, and sit and listen to your favorite tunes. Love to you…